Beyond The Label
Understanding the whys behind your child's behaviors
This week I am not going to tell you. I am going to show you.
Last week we sat together with dysgraphia. This week I want to take you one step further out, to the children whose ideas are rich and whose writing still will not come. That is written language disorder. This time I am going to do more than tell you about it. I am going to show you, and have you...
Aug 06, 2026
Neat, or finished. She could not do both.
Sally came home in tears from school again. When her mom asked her why, she replied:
"My teacher made me stay in from recess to redo my work because she said she couldn't read it. But I had tried my best to get it all done before recess. I can either write neatly and not get done on time, or I ca...
Jul 23, 2026
The spelling list I couldn't read: The problem I could see was never the real one.
Every week in elementary school, the routine was the same. The teacher wrote the week's spelling words on the whiteboard, and each child copied the list, tucked it into a folder, and brought it home. Simple enough. Practice all week, test on Friday.
For my son (name withheld for privacy), it was ...
Jul 16, 2026
The homework he'll do, and the one he won't
When a child avoids just one subject, he is telling you something.
Homework goes fine. Reading, done. Spelling, done. Then you slide the math worksheet across the table, and the whole evening changes. He slumps. He wanders off. He sharpens a pencil for five minutes. Suddenly he is exhausted, or s...
Jul 14, 2026
He wasn't choosing the Legos over you
Introducing my new newsletter, Beyond The Label
Do you ever want just a quick strategy to help your child get through the day, or even the next hour?
That is going to be the focus of this newsletter.
One useful idea at a time — nothing overwhelming, nothing you need a degree to understand — that...
Jul 13, 2026
Why a tool that worked suddenly stops
It didn't stop working. It got put away
I want to tell you about a small moment in my office that I have seen more times than I can count.
A mom came in worn out. A few weeks earlier, she and I had set up a simple visual schedule for her child, a row of pictures showing how the day would go...
Jul 01, 2026
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